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The mirror had to go


Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! - 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV)​


There's a mirror hanging in my bonus room. Or at least, there used to be. It was a gift. The frame paired perfectly with my decor, the size was right, the placement was chef's kiss. On the surface, there was no logical reason to move it. Except I knew.


I'd known for a while, actually. But knowing something and doing something about it are two very different conversations. So I kept it up. Kept walking past it. Kept letting the aesthetic win over the assignment.


Then one day, in the middle of prayer, God brought that mirror to the front of my mind and wouldn't let it go. Not a sermon. No sign. Just a mirror and a quiet, unmistakable knowing that it was time.


Here's the thing nobody tells you about spiritual growth. It doesn't always look like a breakthrough moment. Sometimes it looks like throwing something away. Reorganizing a room. Taking a walk you didn't plan to take. Starting a cleanse you can't quite explain. Spring cleaning in October.


From the outside? It's just a mirror. Just a couch you donated. Just a deep clean of a space that "didn't need it." But God moves in the natural to do something supernatural. That mirror was gifted in a past relationship, one I had already closed the chapter on in my mind but maybe not in my heart. What I've learned about transition is this: The thing you're looking at every day is still speaking. Still reminding. Still connecting you to a version of yourself you've already outgrown.


I was praying for new relationships and new opportunities while keeping the past in my space. God had to check me on that. I once heard my pastor preach a message called Following Strange Instructions. The premise was simple and convicting: it's easy to follow God when the instructions make sense. But what do you do when all you have is "God told me to let this go" — and nothing about it feels logical?


The mirror made sense to keep. Aesthetically, practically, financially. None of those reasons were wrong. They just weren't the point. Obedience rarely is about what makes sense. It's about what makes you free. So the mirror came down. And now I'm looking around at other things, not just in my home, but in me. Resentment I've been decorating around. Rejection I've kept because it was familiar. People-pleasing patterns I told myself "weren't that deep." They paired well with my old life. But they don't belong in the new one.


The redecorating God is calling you to isn't always about your home. It's about what you've been holding onto because it looks fine even though you've already been told it has to go. That urge to clean out your closet? Could be God. That pull toward changing your routine? Could be God. That sudden discomfort with something that used to feel comfortable? Could be God. Don't dismiss the natural nudge. It might be the door to a deeper work.


Before you close this out, sit with this:​

What is God asking you to take down, something you've kept because it still "looks good" that's actually been holding space for who you used to be? It doesn't have to be a mirror. It could be a mindset, a habit, a relationship, a room in your heart you haven't let Him into yet.


The new creation isn't just a verse. It's an invitation. And sometimes it starts with one strange instruction you finally decide to follow.


The old is gone. The new is here. Act like it.

 
 
 

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